Love Spells

One of the most common questions I get asked as a witch is "Do you know any good love spells?"

I know a few. But the more apt question would be - "Have you ever cast a love spell?" The answer would be irrefutably "No."

Why not? you might wonder. It is my strong opinion that love spells border on evil. Of course, more then likely you do not have evil intentions on your mind at all. But love spells border dangerously on hindering Free Will. Forcing someone to love you, is a form of rape, in my mind. Would you force someone to sleep with you? Force someone to marry you? No - probably not. Nor should you force someone to love you.

Now, not all love spells are intended to force someone to love you. And many believe that no spell can actually make someone feel something that they don't feel. So, if John Doe doesn't love you, no spell you can cast will MAKE him love you.

So, what do they do? They twist feelings and emotions, bend them out of balance. John Doe may not love you, but a love spell can turn affection, or simple friendship or care, into lust. Lust is a four letter word in my book - Lust is love's twisted evil sister.

Love spells more often then not, backfire. Either they make John Doe so infatuated with you that he stalks you, or forces himself on you, or becomes jealous and controlling. Or, if there is no affection or care at all in him for you, it can amplify other feelings, like hate, disgust, or fear. Generally, Love spells have disasterous results. I urge anyone with relationship problems to Never do love spells.

Does that mean magick cannot help you? Of course not. There are alternatives to love spells!

Instead of casting a spell on a specific person, instead try casting a spell asking for love to come into your life, or to draw love to you. Never cast a love spell on a specific person. It is wrong to force them to love you. However, if it is a certain person you love, and you are seeking his love in return, try a spell that will help him understand his own feelings. This may result in him realizing he has no feelings for you, but it could also result in him realizing he does.

But NEVER mess with free will.

And generally spells are a last resort with love. I prefer my love to be pure, and untainted or un-tampered with. I like to know that he loves me for me, and not because of some spell, or magickal prodding. So before even trying spells, try simply to talk with him. To explain how you feel, and ask how he feels in return.